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Heather's avatar

I have a STEM degree. Over 5 years of schooling, I had three female professors: first year physics, materials, and communications for engineers. Everyone else was male, and as I had 8-10 professors a year, it wasn’t a good ratio. This was the ‘00’s.

Earning the degree was hard enough… without having to sit alone. That part really hit me. Because STEM is very hard. There’s the blatant rage inducing discrimination, but then there’s also the lack of network. To get through STEM with zero help from anyone you have to be exceptionally exceptional, and yes, some people did it. But there was a core group of us dedicated to just getting through it. We studied together, taught each other, shared our classroom notes, read through each other’s code when the bloody thing wouldn’t compile, and I don’t remember ever being alone at 2:00am in the lab - there was usually a friend there too.

I don’t remember my friends having a problem with my gender but holy schamoly industry does…

Monica Fabra's avatar

Thanks for writing this piece! I really enjoyed reading it and I learned a lot from it!

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